Friendship - A relationship of our choice? Yes. We have the freedom of choosing our friends based on our wish, matching of thoughts, attitude and behavior or whatever. There is hardly any ego between friends. We accept them as they are and they do the same. A friend is someone who shall care for you, love you, cry with you, understand you and shall always be your side, doing everything for you.
Love - A relationship of our choice too? Definitely yes !! Our Heart will thrive for them, miss them in their absence and just have the feeling to hold them forever and never let go.
Are both of them same? I would say there is not much difference between friendship and a lover. Both love and friendships needs a good understanding to last forever. Our heart cries for our love but also longs for a friend when they leave us.
So, is it necessary that if you are good friends with someone, you start to love them? Love is possible after friendship but friendship is not possible after love. It is possible that you start liking your friend and maybe consider to date them but it is necessary that you know they feel the same about you before you taking the big step. You don't want to be in a position where you asked them out and they deny and you end up loosing your friendship as well. Also, even if you are pretty much sure she too feels for you, you need to make sure if you are ready for the commitment.
Sometimes, we feel a friend should always be friend and its stupid how can our friend be our lover. But we do have heard about many of the friends who in fear of loosing their good friendship, enter into love. But behind that love, lye the strong friendship. Friendship - that is needed in every love.
Value your friendship more than your love for the same person because its easy to fall in love, but its hard to get good friends.
Although, I still feel that .. the line is thin ~
